5 emergency items you needs on hold for your big party

Throwing a bachelorette bash is an excellent way to de-stress and reenergize before the big day, but between toasting to your last night as a single woman too many times and running out of $1 bills at a certain sort of entertainment establishment, any number of things can go haywire during the fête. The solution is to be prepared for any scenario, and the key to preparation is an emergency kit. Whether you're planning a relaxing afternoon at the spa, a rigorous ropes course bonding exercise, or a trip to the local club to let loose, every bride needs a handful of key items on hand in case of crisis. Jove Meyer, owner and creative director of the lauded Brooklyn-based company Jove Meyer Events, and Rachal Smith Zembrycki of New Orleans and Nashville-based bachelorette party-planning company Bach Weekend offer their thoughts on exactly what crucial items to pack for an epic — and safe — bachelorette party experience.

1. Transportation company phone numbers
Zembrycki recommends that brides distribute the phone numbers of local transportation companies to each member of the party, lest attendees become stranded after a late night of carousing. "Before going out everyone should have the phone numbers for local cab services," she advises. In addition, "Pre-plan a meeting spot incase the group gets split up," Zembrycki suggests. There are usually one or more members of the bachelorette party who enjoy cheekily branching off from the prescribed plan. http://www.bellasdress.com/sexy-wedding-dresses-li65885/8/

2. Fashion emergency accoutrements
Not all bachelorette party crises are health-related, Meyer reminds brides. In case of a fashion emergency, Meyer proposes carrying a lint roller, a Tide pen, fashion tape, safety pins, deodorant removing sponge, scissors, baby wipes and extra undies.

3. Refreshments and snacks
Bachelorette parties are usually synonymous with drinking, and the last thing brides need is a group of highly inebriated pals painting the town red after imbibing on an empty stomach. "If the group is staying overnight in a hotel, bottled water and some snacks are a must. Always keep some food in your stomach and stay well hydrated!" Zembrycki insists.

4. Electronics essentials
Ensuring that your iPhone has a full battery may not be a top priority at your bachelorette party — but it should be. Make sure to stash your phone charger in your bag before dashing out the door. "Somehow phones die at the most important moments!" Meyer reminds brides.

5. First aid basics
Meyer advocates carrying first aid necessities for any bachelorette bumps or bruises that may occur during the revelry. His favorites to have on hand include Benyadryl, Tums, cough drops and blister defense. Zembrycki agrees, explaining, "Many brides don't realize they need to be almost as prepared for the bachelorette party as they are for their weddings."

Tips for your wedding planning

Wedding planning takes a huge chunk of your time — but you can't hit the snooze button on summer dates just because you're in the throes of planning an epic event. So here are seven date ideas to help you take advantage of the season and that won't detract from your wedding planning — we promise!  sexy evening gowns at bellasdress 

1. Take dance lessons outdoors 

More and more, companies are bringing their dance lessons to the great outdoors, hosting free or for-a-small-fee sessions at botanical gardens and river and lakeside parks. So twirl along with a two-hour class and take notes for when you're waltzing across on an entirely different dance floor.

2. Tackle a triathlon of outdoor activities 
Slate a few hours for an outdoor competition, where you bike ride, swim, or run our way to a fitter body. Not only does a little competition make sparks fly between you two, but working out will help you both get in shape for your big day.

3. Visit a vineyard 
Walk through rows of vines and just-budding grapes, then settle in for a wine tasting. Take notes; you may just find the perfect vintage to serve during your wedding toasts.

4. Take a class at a local nursery 
Learn about the flowers you want most for your big day, then duck into an onsite café for a bite amongst the blooms.

5. Go shopping — at a yard sale 
Summer is the time for neighborhood sales, where you can score one-of-a-kind finds for your wedding décor or new home. See who can bargain their way to the best deal for additional fun.

6. Snap photos in the sun 
Play photographer for a day, taking photos of one another as you walk through your city's streets, parks, or other outdoor areas. You'll enjoy gazing at one another all day, plus it's great practice for when you're standing in front of your wedding photographer!

7. Taste your way through a farmer's market 
You have to go grocery shopping anyway, so why not head to an outdoor farmer's market where vendors are generous with samples of berries, baked goods and more. Who knows? You could discover the perfectedible favors you'll soon give to your guests.

My View on Following the Fashion

Nowadays more and more young people prefer to follow the fashion. On this phenomenon, different people have different views. It is held that one should follow the fashion so as not to be despised or considered eccentric. But it is also held that one should have one's own judgment. Bellasdress.com

Those who hold the first opinion think that society is progressing and one should adapt oneself to the constant change. In their opinion, if everyone always sticks to the old fashion, there won't be any change and naturally there won't be progress. In contrast, those who hold the second view think that one shouldn't follow the fashion without discrimination and one should have one's own judgment and characteristics. As for me, I agree with the latter opinion.

Admittedly, one should be flexible and adapt himself to the situation, but this is not to say that one should follow the fashion without discrimination because the fashion may not be beneficial.We should consider whether the fashion is favorable or unfavorable. Moreover, one should have one's own characteristics. If everyone follows the same fashion, there will not be variety and the whole society will be monotonous.